Comments on: Sex Toy Gun

By: Heaven

Heaven — Tue, 28 Oct 2014 21:50:10 +0000

I have came across a bunch of people on there just using anything for sex toys. I give as much advice I can in the groups but people just don’t listen then I see them buy something new and it is like wtf are you thinking? They will learn one day.

By: The Sin Doll

The Sin Doll — Sat, 25 Oct 2014 22:55:43 +0000

I’ve seen one with the mold spots! It belonged to a friend. We were cleaning out her room. I was horrified. Not at finding the dildo, but the shape it was in. I gave her the lecture, but felt responsible. I knew better. I’d told her all about sex toys. I showed her places with a wide range of toys, inexpensive, safe materials, but …that’s what she was working with. That’s when I “got” that some people just don’t really care.

I’m sure that there are “safe sex toy material,” and “non-toxic toy” posts and groups, on Fet. But I feel like it’s coming in waaayyy behind other “toys.” Not all kinksters seem to put as much effort, care, and concern in their sex toys.

By: Dangerous Lilly

Dangerous Lilly — Sat, 25 Oct 2014 13:58:09 +0000

You are such a good student!

Do you think that the Fetlife people would even listen? Can their minds be changed through education? I’ve met a lot of really rigid people in my line of work. It’s a toss up, really. Sometimes I tell people the basics and they’re horrified, they throw out their shitty collection and start over. Sometimes that flat-out say that they’ve been fine so far, and they don’t give a shit.

I’ve had people say to me “well I’m not sensitive, I’ve never felt anything from these so-called toxic toys”. We focused on the phthalates for so long that we never really looked at the porosity. I’ve seen black mold spots on dildos and masturbators. AND people keep using them that way!!!!

I’m no longer on FetLife but I’d come back to do a virtual class if you think any would listen.