May 162013
 

You and him. Sitting in a tree. K.I.S.S.I.N.G. First comes love. Then comes marriage. Then here you come with a baby carriage.

WORKWell – that isn’t for everyone. Some people are more casual. More quiet. More secretive. Professional and family lives tend to get into the way of exploring kink and other fetishes that some might have. Some people don’t know what they want and need a little more information.

Now that dating has become so easily accessibly online, it’s just a click away. Well, most things are if you know where to look.XXX Sex Guides gives you reviews of sites, and some interesting niches for you to explore. Does it scream sex? Yes. Why shouldn’t it though? It’s all about sex. There’s a little something deeper though.

Transexuals, FemDoms, Bondage. Escorts. Professionals. In the U.S. or otherwise, XXX Sex Guides offers you a taste of what’s out there in the alternative dating world. It gives those who are new a place to start looking for information and old hats a place to hang them.

XXX Sex Guides  Links you up to ProCon which informs you of the prostitution laws in 100 countries. Keeps you informed. If in Europe and looking for an escort, then you’re on the right site. Endless possibilities.

* The only site that’s listed on XXX Sex Guides that I’ve used and am currently using is Fetlife.com. It’s a wonderful site and I’ve enjoyed it so far. Although I’ve received payment for this post, it’s still within FTC Guidelines. *

Aug 022012
 

At our last munch, our local kink group got started talking about bondage tape. I mentioned that I already had a roll of it, and a few ideas got tossed around as to how we could best put it to use.  Since I review mostly for myself I thought I’d pick up another roll.

The roll of bondage tape that I already own is from KinkLab Bondage Tape from J.T.’s Stockroom in black, but this time I decided to go with the Sex and Mischief line, although I’ve never been a big fan of their products.  I reviewed a blindfold from them and you can read about that here.

Alas, they had a shiny red roll that drew my attention, so… money spent.

Let’s compare the two:

KinkLab:

Length – 65 feet ($8.00) =.12 cents a foot

Width – 2 inches

Available in: black, red, and pink

Sex & Mischief:

Price – Usually $7.99 (I got it on sale for $5.99) = .27 cents a foot (when not on sale) .20 cents a foot (when on sale)

Length – 30 feet

Width – 2 inches

Available in: black, red, and pink

On sale or not, Kinklab’s bondage tape works out to be better price-wise.

Just my opinion, given the feel and the wrap of the two tapes, the Sex and Mischief bondage tape has a cheaper feel to it. It doesn’t have the strength to it that KinkLab’s does.

Bondage tape is made from PVC. Its uses are varied and many. I’ve seen bondage tape used as clothing at BDSM play parties, of course, as bondage ties, securing wrists, ankles, etc. Have no fear, this tape doesn’t actually stick to anything but itself. It’s not going to pull hair or skin. It can actually be reused if you’re willing to spend the time re-wrapping. Although bondage tape is a fairly non-intimidating introduction to bondage, always keep a set of safety scissors handy just in case there’s any need to release your bottom immediately. You’ll also want to keep in mind that bondage tape wasn’t designed for suspension and won’t hold weight like rope will. Also, don’t cover the mouth and nose with the tape. Hey, people still need to breathe! :) Take your time with your tape and most importantly… have fun!

Here’s some pictures for you. The KinkLab tape is in black and the Sex and Mischief is in red.

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Dec 012009
 

The room was cold and dark with the air conditioning unit providing a loud hum for background noise. It made for my own type of sensory deprivation. My hands were always cuffed  and occasionally, as I rolled over or squirmed, I hit myself in the head with the lock that latched them together. I would mentally curse  and then was thankful almost simultaneously. He didn’t wish for me to squirm against that which bound me, but my guess is, if I did, he wanted to make sure that I didn’t go anywhere.

When I rolled over or moved he would reach for my collared neck, my hair, or hip and roughly tug me back to him so that I never strayed far in the large bed…  always tucked under him, curled around him, or hips positioned so that he could lay over me. Whatever he liked. I needed him to pull me back and put me where he wanted me because it’s never comfortable to sleep alone for too long.

At times when I’d get hot and the sheets felt too restricting, I’d kick at them.  A swift, strong hand would still me. My body’s natural desire was for his touch and the need for it to overpower me. I wanted him to take me so badly.

His hand would wrap over my lips and my nose and cut off the air from my body.  I would struggle at first, but soon enough I would become still and tight against him. I surrendered. When I was close enough to him that his excitement could be felt, he would give me my air.

I do not remember sleeping. I remember drifting off, feeling completely safe, comfortable, and happy with my back arched and my throat exposed. I wanted him touching me…  all the most sensitive parts of me …..at his whim ….constantly and throughout the night. The more often he did it, his hands covering me, the more I yielded to him and the less I fought.

I was always going to be his.

He wasn’t giving me a choice.